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  • 1. Different Yet Excellent: A Delicious Look at Gender Distinctives! (28:36)

    Women & Men – God intentionally designed us differently, and it’s excellent!

    • What is the Biblical picture of gender?
    • What does “different” mean and how deep does it go?
    • Men are like waffles = what does that mean?
    • Women are like spaghetti = what does that mean?
    • How does this difference affect our communication?
    • Why men and women struggle to listen to each other?
    • Acceptance of our “createdness” without being a jerk/witch!
  • 2. Different Yet Excellent: A Delicious Look at Gender Distinctives! (19:12)

    Women & Men in Stress

    • What does a woman need when she’s stressed?
    • What does a man need when he’s stressed?
    • How are they unlike the other when stressed?
    • What is the importance of undistracted focus and connection?
    • Will it help to join them in their world?
  • 3. Different Yet Excellent: A Delicious Look at Gender Distinctives! (51:43)

    Women & Men in Communication

    • When he/she starts a discussion, it’s because he/she…
    • What we can do to let the other finish the conversation they want to have?
    • How does a guy or gal serve the other through communication?
    • How to communicate, a doable process, a few rules…
    • Are we trying to find the right partner or…?
    • Does being in love necessarily mean we will be good at communicating?
  • 4. Different Yet Excellent: A Delicious Look at Gender Distinctives! (34:39)

    Women & Men in Conflict

    • Is conflict necessary/inevitable?
    • Can a relationship grow without conflict?
    • Why do men/women compete/fight?
    • Are you competing/fighting about the same thing?
    • Do you fight for the relationship or against each other?
    • 3 (non)secrets for better communication
    • 6 handles on forgiveness and 1 freebee!
  • 5. Different Yet Excellent: A Delicious Look at Gender Distinctives! (42:08)

    Women & Men – Primary Needs

    • Is your sacrifice for your wife anything like Christ’s for us?
    • Does disrespecting your husband mean you distrust God?
    • Can we disagree without being disrespectful?
    • What two things should be removed from our relationship?
    • Do we always know why we feel the way we do?
    • Does saying “I understand” help?
    • What are his and her key needs?

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